[RC] Stopping at water (was:trail etiquette question) - k s swigartMaggie said: I'd like to pose a hypothetical question to you all regarding trail etiquette... On trail, when riding in a group, it is polite and correct etiquette to wait at water for other horses to drink. I am talking about puddles and streams, etc. We all do that. Most of us anyway. No doubt about that, is there? I'm going to answer the first part of the question, the part that there is "no doubt about." Because, I'll be honest with you, MY personal attitude about trail etiquette at water stops is not that we all wait for the other horses to drink, but exactly the opposite. If my horse isn't drinking, I need to get out of the way. And if your horse isn't drinking, the polite thing for you to do is to get your horse out of the way. So yeah, that means, get on down the trail. I figure if my horse wants to go with that horse that is leaving rather than drinking (because they happen to have been riding together for a while) if I want those other riders to wait while my horse drinks, I will ask them to. ...and if people want me to stay while their horse drinks, then they can ask me to. It would, then, be rude, to ride off anyway. However, in my world, proper etiquette about water stops is, take your horse to the water, let it drink and move on quietly to leave room for everybody else. If somebody wants me to do anything else because their horse has difficulty with that, they can ask. It is entirely possible that I am the only person in this world and have been considered rude for getting out of the way. :) This is NOT however, what I do, if it is THEIR water that my horse is drinking. So, in the hypothetical question about the crew stops. If their crew is offering my horse water, I will give my horse the opportunity to drink it (I am NOT going to say to my horse, "No, no, you can't have this water, you have to wait 'til we go another few hundred yard." If my horse wants to drink the water being offered, I will let it and thank the crew person kindly. And yes, I will wait until the other horses are done and the other people are ready to move on, and then will repeat the offer when we get to my (hypothetical) crew. But if my horse is not interested, then no, I am not going to wait.... ....unless they ask me to. kat Orange County, Calif. =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Ridecamp is a service of Endurance Net, http://www.endurance.net. Information, Policy, Disclaimer: http://www.endurance.net/Ridecamp Subscribe/Unsubscribe http://www.endurance.net/ridecamp/logon.asp Ride Long and Ride Safe!! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
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