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Re: [RC] Free Horses ... - Diane Trefethen

It's not about buying a made horse or a trainer doing everything except ride the sucker in a show. It is about what is right for the horse.

I think that back in the "good old days", RESPONSIBLE parents treated animals as more disposable than they do today. They got puppies or kittens "to teach the kid responsibility" without worrying about how being cared for (or not) by a child affected the young animal. Today we are exhorted not to get kittens and puppies if there are young children in the house because the animals can't deal with the kids and the kids have no concept of how painful their grabbing and "patting" can be. Further, we realize that the personality of the animal will be affected by its treatment as a kitten or puppy. This last is just as true for horses.

Raising a lamb or calf in 4H does not require thinking about how the way you treat it will affect its personality because it is probably going to be slaughtered before it gets to be 2 yrs old. A horse is different. One expects a horse to be of service for most of its natural lifespan. There are lots of ways to screw up the MIND of a horse and young children, or those who think like children, are prime candidates to do just that. Children can be cruel. They tend to self-centeredness. They often see an animal's disobeyance as a personal affront. While they are easy to frighten, and once frightened overly timid, they are similarly quick to anger and when angry strike out blindly. In short, they are not mature enough to single-handedly undertake the training of an animal's psyche, said training to last for the animal's whole life. Sure there are exceptions. And of course when mentored they can have successes. But because some kids are mature enough to take on the awesome responsibility of training a horse, it does not follow that most are. Most aren't. In fact, most adults aren't either.

Inexperienced trainers generally do a poor job. Notice I said inexperienced, not unschooled. There are a lot of good horsemen and horsewomen (as opposed to riders) who KNOW horses from watching and handling them for years. Even without the benefit of formal training, these people can do a very nice job training a horse and shaping its mind to be willing, even eager, to accept more human guidance. However, children don't have those many years of experience. To expect them, without the guidance of an experienced horseperson, to do a good job of training a horse is unrealistic. And what happens when they make mistakes? Nothing to them, if they are lucky. The horse is the one to pay the price. Mom and Dad just sell the unmanageable beast and get something else. The horse goes down the road having lost its most formative years for learning how to be a "good" horse and learned instead avoidance or worse.



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Re: [RC] Free Horses ..., Stacy Sadar