In a message dated 3/20/2006 8:04:29 AM Pacific Standard Time,
brio_gal@xxxxxxxxxxx writes:
I relpy
with "it is my money and my choice"
Sadly, I don't think this is a long term attitude for a healthy
marriage. I think you're wise to hesitate about starting a family.
I've been married 25 years, two kids, both in college now. My husband
was extremely supportive and my ride weekends were father son weekends that are
now really special memories for the three of them. No mom around to make
sure you ate veggies and drank enough milk. They had a BLAST and did stuff
like going to NASCAR races, re-building go carts, and other manly pursuits
<g>. Despite my fears, none of them ever developed rickets or skurvy
;)
I could give you a long list of how supportive my husband and sons were,
but I'll just tell you that the three of them crewed SIX Tevis rides for
me. I think that says it all :)
Hey Angie! I think we should arrange a marriage between my 20 year
old son and your 19 year old daughter.....she'd have a ready trained crew!
<bg>
Oh yeah, and now that we're empty nesters my "non-horsey" husband rides
with me....we are having a blast!
