Re: [RC] Vet phobia, gender bias... - Maryanne Stroud GabbaniThis isn't so much an Arab thing or even a horse thing, but more of a perception thing. We get so busy doing our chores around our animals that we forget that they are very capable of perceiving threat, fear and confidence in our bodies from cues that we don't even notice. My pack of terriers is murder around someone who is afraid of them to the point of possibly striking. Someone who is simply anxious gets different treatment. I study my visitors' actions carefully before they come in....and, come to think of it, there are a whole bunch of people who just don't come anymore, not that it is a loss. <G>We humans are also very capable of these reactions, as I was reminded by a friend who went trail riding with me. This friend suffers from a fear of the fellaheen, fear of their strangeness and a very negative reaction to them. The few times I rode with her, we had all sorts of problems with bratty kids throwing stones and such, problems that I never have when I'm alone. I like the fellaheen. They are people living in difficult situations and working hard to make ends meet. I respect them and they respect me. I don't think that they are angelic and I have no illusions regarding the innate goodness of humanity, but to me they aren't "STRANGE". It's worth it to pay attention to our animals' response to people. They've often noticed something that we haven't. Lest this seem to be an excuse for horses misbehaving around vets, I should add that I expect my horses to be absolutely cooperative for the vet...and they are 99.9% of the time. If your baseline is a kind, cooperative horse, you need to pay attention to the things that swing it off the baseline. Maryanne Cairo, Egypt On Thursday, Jun 12, 2003, at 21:03 Africa/Cairo, Lysane Cree wrote:
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