RE: Need Advice on Situation (long)

["Kendall, Jennifer" <Jennifer_Kendall@adc.com>]

My suggestion is to be honest with her and tell her what you think.  I have always learned that honesty is the best solution for a problem like that.  If she in return wants to blame you for whatever reason, let her.  You both know who really has the problem here.  If she still insists on going and that it will be different this time, politely tell her no, then if  that doesn't work, ask her to work on her horsemanship skills and her temper when she  has it under control, then she may join you.  However you do it, I am sure you don't want to hurt her feelings, but it is best to say what is on your mind.  I had a friend who thought she was the Creator of the word horse and everything that went with it.  I held my comments too long and then I told her what I really thought.  Some people do not take criticism well!
Good Luck with this problem, I am sure it is more than frustrating for you!
Jenni

 


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