Subject: Re: [RC] re: NOT married because
of horses...
I
never understood that 'you love your horse more' thing. That's just insecurity
on their part because it's totally different. Yes, I totally love my horse,
she's my buddy, my trail partner and I understand her when a lot of other
people don't. She's smart and feisty, can be high strung and opinionated, but
is also a very reliable and safe ride. I've raised her since she was a baby
and I totally love her and would be devastated if something happened to her.
BUT it's not the exact same relationship as I have with my human partner, who
I also would not want to be without. And your human partner needs to be
mature/confident enough to get that. I love them equally in their own ways.
And their is enough love to go around, it's not like there is a limit that
will run out. lol
But
like I said, if forced to choose...you don't want to go there. Mainly because
I think if someone forces you to choose between them and the core of what
makes you 'you", then there is a big problem in the
relationship.
