[RC] Civilized (was: you should) - Kristi SchaafKat wrote: While it is perfectly "natural" for horses to kick at each other in retaliation for slights from other horses, or in defense against predators, this is NOT suitable behaviour for horses that are brought out in the company of strange horses and people. ___________________________________ True true. And all this 'civilized behavior' boils down to your relationship with your horse, I think, rather than relying on 'punishment'. For example: if my lowest horse attempts to steal the alpha horse's hay, alpha will of course chase the low guy away. BUT, if I'm present, the low horse could actually mosey up and eat alpha's hay because the alpha knows that when I'm there he is NOT ruling the roost. I actually have to protect HIM from the low guy so he can eat his hay unhassled if I'm present, and I take the opportunity to do so to help prove to him that I am looking out for him. Same goes for the low guy - he knows that the middle guy won't even THINK of stealing his oats when I'm there. The only way to have this trust is to earn it, over and over again. I don't want to bring up a natural horsemanship 'name' and start THAT whole debate again, but I feel that the exercises/philosophies I learned have helped me convince my horse that I am a trustworthy leader who will look out for him so he doesn't have to feel that he has to do it when I'm there. And no matter how you learn to do that, the key is to do your best to never let your horse down, which means paying attention and seeing things through his prey animal eyes instead of expecting him to see things through your predator eyes. Kristi iluvdez at yahoo dot ____________________________________________________________________________________ Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search. http://tools.search.yahoo.com/newsearch/category.php?category=shopping =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Ridecamp is a service of Endurance Net, http://www.endurance.net. Information, Policy, Disclaimer: http://www.endurance.net/Ridecamp Subscribe/Unsubscribe http://www.endurance.net/ridecamp/logon.asp Ride Long and Ride Safe!! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
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