[RC] Naive vs abuse - Kristi SchaafI've ridden lots of NATRC and a couple hundred miles of LD, but have wanted to be a '50 miler' for almost a decade. Finally, this fall everything fell into place and we were off. At the mile 35 vet check, after my horse got all A's and looked fantastic at the trot out, when going to resaddle I discovered that he had, for the first time ever, a girth rub that made him twitch and jerk when I put my hand on the area. It clearly was extremely sore and was very hot to the touch, though there was no broken skin. So what did I do, 15 miles away from finally completing a goal that I've been longing for for a very long time? I pulled. The vet told me that pulling would be a rider option because my horse was fit to continue. Still, I pulled. Even if had finished 'sound', going down the trail with me would have HURT. Why would I ever want him to associate pain with being with me? I'm not sharing this to pat myself on the back. I'm sharing this because of how frustrated I am that not everyone puts their horse first. To me it's SOOO cut and dried - the horse comes first, ALWAYS, and I don't understand how anyone could ever purposely push their horse when he tells them he hurts or that he can't do it. Yes, I've seen and understand that sh** happens to even the most conscientious riders, and horses can be stoic to their detriment, but I wonder how often crashes are really in that category, rather than in the "I can tell he's not 'right' but it doesn't matter as much as what I want does" category. Therein lies the rub that causes so much argument - where does naive and/or 'I didn't know' end and 'I don't care' begin? Kristi __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Ridecamp is a service of Endurance Net, http://www.endurance.net. Information, Policy, Disclaimer: http://www.endurance.net/Ridecamp Subscribe/Unsubscribe http://www.endurance.net/ridecamp/logon.asp Ride Long and Ride Safe!! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
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