[RC] To all my cracked pot Friends, Have a Wonderful Holiday Season - Tom Sites
An
elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole,
which she carried across her neck. One
of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always
delivered a full portion of water, at the end of the long walk from the
stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.
For a
full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one
and a half pots of water. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its
accomplishments. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own
imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been
made to do.
After 2 years of what it perceived to be bitter failure,
it spoke to the woman one day by the stream. "I am ashamed of myself,
because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to
your house." The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers
on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?" "That's
because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on
your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them. For
two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the
table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this
beauty to grace the house."
Each of us has our own unique flaw. But
it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so
very interesting and rewarding. You've just got to take each person for what
they are and look for the good in them.
SO, to all of my crackpot
friends, have a great day and remember to smell the flowers on your side
of the path!
