Re: [RC] help with trail shy gelding - pat holsebekeHi there.A word of hope. I too have a horse prone to shying. What I have found after 4 long yrs. and many tears, was that my horse lacked experience and confidence. The answer to that was to ride and ride and ride. I also had to concentrate on my own relaxation because he is so sensitive that he could pick up on the slightest stiffening of my butt which happens even when you don't realize it at the appoach of any obstacle that has potential to spook a horse. The more relaxed I became the more confidence he seems to have and it is a night and day difference. He now is confident crossing water, going over bridges and just about anything I put him at. Sometimes he has to get a look but I don't allow him to turn away from the obstacle just wait and encourage and he goes. He is such a happier horse now and I also am glad that I didn't give up because he is awsome and we have really bonded. He goes alone because he trusts me and he loves his work now. He was former show horse. Good luck and keep trying. I think the key is for the horse to trust you to take care of him and be his herd leader. Pat --- Barbara McCrary <bigcreekranch@xxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: I recently sold a gelding I had worked with for over 3 years to my 13-year-old granddaughter. The horse was great on technical trails, but a violent, explosive spooker on roads or open country...at a trot, that is. At a walk he was much better and manageable. My observations: 1) Sometimes it is not possible to take the spook out of an individual horse...they're hard-wired that way. 2) A confident rider has better luck than a timid or fearful one. Here's how it shook out for us and the horse: The teenage g'daughter is a good rider, fearless, much younger than I am, and bounces when she hits the ground. The horse does not spook as much with her as he did with me, as I was riding defensively all the time (outside of a walk) and the g'daughter does not. The horse also was/is much better in competition, since he had/has other horses around to protect him from the boogers out there in the world. I often think some of his nonsense was carried out for entertainment value..."What are you doing down THERE? You're not supposed to fall off when I jump 6 feet sideways without any notice." Refusing to go is one thing, and should be dealt with, but spooking you may never cure...and then again he may change, but don't count on it. We have a young mare we bred, and her refusal to go forward at times is being dealt with. She was submitted to a lot of Parelli training and is now out on the trails with a younger rider than I am. She gets a bit balky occasionally, but the rider pushes through it. We think she will overcome it as she gains age and experience. Barbara ----- Original Message ----- From: Amy Major To: ridecamp@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Wednesday, September 06, 2006 12:01 PM Subject: [RC] help with trail shy gelding Hi, I was wondering if anyone could give me advice. I have a gelding that use to do endurance, was retired for a while, but now I want to do an LD with him. He has the experience, I don't so logically he would be a great horse to start with. One problem is that when alone, he is either refusing to go on trail or spooks left and right (I think it is a trick to get me to give up). We spent a few weeks re-establishing respect and are still working on that. I know that I need to make the right thing easy and the wrong thing hard but I don't know where to start. Has anyone had this problem and can anyone give me some advice. I have the Anderson stuff and do some of the Parelli stuff. Is there anything else I can do? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. Make PC-to-Phone Calls to the US (and 30+ countries) for 2¢/min or less. __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Ridecamp is a service of Endurance Net, http://www.endurance.net. Information, Policy, Disclaimer: http://www.endurance.net/Ridecamp Subscribe/Unsubscribe http://www.endurance.net/ridecamp/logon.asp Ride Long and Ride Safe!! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
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