Re: [RC] help with trail shy gelding - Diane TrefethenHi Amy,You said you think the refusing and spooking might be a trick. That is where to start. Is he trying to intimidate you into avoiding work or is he really suffering from a lack of self-confidence? A lot of riders are not very good horsemen or horsewomen and run roughshod all over a pony's fears so your gelding's having been used "to do endurance" doesn't mean that he didn't go down the trail scared and uncertain. If he is truly worried about all the horse-eating boulders and logs, your easy going attitude, laughter and taking the time to stop, get off and introduce him to the monsters (I find a smart smack on the offending rock/log/gate/whatever is very effective in convincing a horse that *I* am Alpha and the rock/log/etc ISN'T) will help settle him down considerably. Once he knows YOU can handle anything, then HE won't need to worry so much :) And don't forget the laughter!!! Still, Barbara is right about some horses never getting over that push the panic button first response and if he is one of those... ah well. On the other hand, if his tactics are just avoidance, the focus changes from "poor baby; how can I help" to "not on MY watch, sucker". Until he gives up his avoidance tactics he never gets his way, EVER. It doesn't matter as much what you DO do with him as it matters that he DOESN'T do what he wants. In this regard, if you know he is going to be difficult, leave yourself 2-4 hours for his next "lesson". If he "gets it" right away, you can have a lovely trail ride. If not, you won't have to cut the lesson short because you ran out of time. Say YOUR objective is to go out on the trail and HIS objective is to stay home so he refuses to go through the gate to the trails, immediately change YOUR objective to a very boring going-through-a-gate lesson. Get off and lead him back and forth through that gate at least 25 times. Unlatch it, open it, close it, re-latch it and back again, over and over till the horse is ready to scream "ALL READY!! I GET IT!!" Then do the whole thing again from the saddle, side yield, unlatch and open gate, through, side yield, close gate and latch, then back again... and again... and again. Remember to praise every small thing he does well (with your voice not a treat) and growl at him every time he messes up. End the lesson on the TRAIL side of the gate and start to ride away from home. If he acts up, turn around and go back to have a SECOND incredibly boring gate lesson. While you might not get to go out on the trail THIS time, you have followed the #1 rule, HE doesn't get his way, EVER. If he's been pretty good, do not reward him with goodies when you get back to the barn. That, from his point of view, is a reward for getting back to the barn, NOT for the good work out on the trail. In fact, it is a good rule of thumb to never give a horse goodies upon RETURNING to the barn. If you do, that is the association he will make and be even more reluctant to leave, never mind wanting to get back as quickly as possible. Good luck and have fun! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Ridecamp is a service of Endurance Net, http://www.endurance.net. Information, Policy, Disclaimer: http://www.endurance.net/Ridecamp Subscribe/Unsubscribe http://www.endurance.net/ridecamp/logon.asp Ride Long and Ride Safe!! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
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