[RC] Tiny Hienies & Lardbutts (was: Civility) - k s swigartJoe Long said: Hmmm ... I don't recall the particulars, that was probably Truman, and was written as a "friendly" jibe (apposite to "tiny hienies"). Definitely not intended to be an insult. I don't for a minute believe that Truman's (and quite a few other heavyweight riders') reference to lightweights as tiny hienies is not intended as an insult. Its very intent is to demean the accomplishment of successful lighter weight riders. The heavy weight mantra is "if I beat you, it is because I am better than you are, I have selected my horse carefully, I have conditioned carefully, I have done my homework, I do everything I can to help my horse carry (or not carry) my weight; whereas if you beat me it is because you are lighter than I am." The appellation, "tiny hieny" is a deliberate attempt to debase the achievements of lighter riders by using a derogatory term to describe people who routinely out ride him. I don't consider it a "friendly jibe" at all. I figure it is a way for him to provide a salve for his ego and with an excuse for getting beaten......by a girrrrrl. Neither lardbutt not tiny hieny are friendly jibes, and besides, even if that is the way they are intended, friendly jibes can only be used that way among good friends--i.e. people you know well enough and have enough mutual respect between you that such derogatory terms will not be taken with offense. You gotta figure, that if such terms are used on an internet mailing list that is subscribed to by over 1000 people and can be read by anybody in the world with an internet connection (so vast numbers of the readers are going to be strangers, not friends), that it is intended as an insult. kat Orange County, Calif. p.s. Before you ask, the answer is yes. :) =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Ridecamp is a service of Endurance Net, http://www.endurance.net. Information, Policy, Disclaimer: http://www.endurance.net/Ridecamp Subscribe/Unsubscribe http://www.endurance.net/ridecamp/logon.asp Ride Long and Ride Safe!! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
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