[RC] Horse Buyer Beware - Ridecamp GuestPlease Reply to: wendy lumbert wendy@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx or ridecamp@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ========================================== This is a great example of the usual personal slamming that goes on at Ridecamp. Before jumping on the bandwagon consider the facts here. You emailed someone that you were interested in their horse for sale. You DID NOT make an offer to buy the horse. You stopped at a ride on the way to see it, not in a blazing hurry were you? Did you expect them to hold the horse for you in case you decided to buy it? Then you rode the horse, but did you offer to pay full price in cash (the way YOU would like to sell a horse?) NO. Does the seller owe you anything at this point? NO. You still liked the horse but were still determined to get a bargain so made a low offer again. Does the seller owe you anything? NO. The third day you finally offer full price and are outraged to find that someone else has been willing to pay full price and now you have lost out on the horse. Whose fault is that, exactly? Now you attempt to badmouth the seller by mentioning their name and acting hurt. PLEASE!! Want to know how to keep this from happening again? When you find a horse you want to buy, get there fast, ride it, and if you like it then buy it right then for crying out loud! If you weren't prepared to pay full price did you mention THAT to the seller before they so nicely took the horse to a ride for you to try out??? BTW I am NOT the seller but boy do I hate this type of whining, especially when people join in and say oh poor buyer..... I've been looking for a horse so I used the classifieds on endurance.net. I found one in Colorado and communicated by email several times with the owner. We decided to go out to Colorado from Maryland to see the horse. We stopped to ride the Summer Breeze on the way and were lucky to find a ride in Westcliffe, Colorado the next weekend. We looked at the horse, rode him, liked him and made an offer. Kerry said she'd think about it. A day went by and I made a higher offer. Another day went by and I told her I would pay the asking price. At this time she said someone else was looking at the horse and they had first priority. She had neglected to mention this in any of the emails. We wouldn't have taken a chance and made the trip if we had known this. Needless to say we missed out on the horse. My purpose for this post is so others won't make the mistake we did. How can we keep something like this from happening again? =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- Ridecamp is a service of Endurance Net, http://www.endurance.net. Information, Policy, Disclaimer: http://www.endurance.net/Ridecamp Subscribe/Unsubscribe http://www.endurance.net/ridecamp/logon.asp Ride Long and Ride Safe!! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
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