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RE: [RC] [RC] [RC] re: Rude Rider - Laurie Durgin

Well, what you really do is just hang out with them. Ride with them for awile, pretend they're your new buddies, your new pals. Laugh too loudly and too often, tell a few off color, really bad jokes, start telling them about your sister's outrageous sex life with the basketball team when she was in college, in detail, discuss politics (I'm a Communist), religion (I think we should all return to Paganism, it makes things so much simpler) >

Yeah, then you could just eat your enemies ;0)

My friend used to get all blown up and bent out of shape at how rude people were out on trail...especially those who were just walking there horses while we where "training" on trail. Usually comments range from..."Why don't you slow down!" "You can't ride there!" "Watch it!" "Get out of my way" "You shouldn't canter on trail!" "Stop running (when we were trotting)" and it goes on with other nasty comments to just plain dirty looks, etc. Anyway, I take a bit of a different approach and act more concerned for the person and make sure they have complete control of their horse and just straight out ask them if they are going to be okay out here in the woods...on trail...outside of the arena. I'm getting really tired of people who expect you to walk or trot slower because they have no control of their own horses. No, none of us run past others or run up on them. We ask if we can pass and when we get by, ask if we can trot away. I'm talking about being 100 yards from someone at a
canter, slow down and approach at an easy trot, then a walk to go by. My point to this is that I should NOT have to ride my horse for other people. If they truly feel that my canter or trot 100 yards away from them is causing their horse to be out of control, then I'm sorry but they need to go back to the barn and practice some control. I'm never rude...just concerned...and to a point "shaming" them for how they act towards us. I'm just getting tired of it.


Stacy

John Lyons says a Trail Horse has to be better trained than an arena horse--"If you don't have control where you ride , don't ride there....."Ride where you can (safely), not where you can't".

I rode with some day riders once and they scared the doo do out of me. I thought at the time my horse had problems---and he was much better behaved than those horses and safer ,a dnhe has had his moments.


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