RE: [RC] [RC] still having issues... - Laurie DurginCheck out any "ideas" in your mind whether you or the horse can get hurt.She is AFRAID--she thinks she is going to die there. So you need to find ways to convince her to trust you and follow your lead--. Something scared her and she hasn't forgotten it. You have to reinstill her confidence in what you ask her. Pain usually reinforces the fear.Small steps over time, just try to get a bit of improvement and drop the time tables. Figure out is you could be reinforcing her fear--also think what makes her feel safe, or what can you do to encourage her. Maybe leading one step further everyday on ground with encouragement and praise. Maybe following other horses (whose riders don't pressure you) lots of times, then going it alone , with small steps. Maybe more ground work and practice leaving the barn dozens of times in her comfort zone,and slowly increasing her distance. Maybe feeding her out on the trail, maybe coming back and going to work in the ring or tying her for a while to stand. (I once reinforced mygeldings desire to come back , by feeding him dinner after we returned ,letting him graze.I had to change to going to the ring and working 15 minutes or tying him for 15 minutes --but he wasn't afraid , he was being naughty).(But on the same horse I had to walk him from home many a time on the ground in the beginning or past scary places, took him a long time for him to trust me,but he was right I was green too. Now he trusts me more and is older and has more confidence). From: Ridecamp Guest <guest-owner@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> To: <ridecamp@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Subject: [RC] still having issues... Date: Tue, 26 Oct 2004 17:22:59 GMT _________________________________________________________________ Don?t just search. Find. Check out the new MSN Search! http://search.msn.click-url.com/go/onm00200636ave/direct/01/ =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Ridecamp is a service of Endurance Net, http://www.endurance.net. Information, Policy, Disclaimer: http://www.endurance.net/Ridecamp Subscribe/Unsubscribe http://www.endurance.net/ridecamp/logon.asp Ride Long and Ride Safe!! =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
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