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Thanks, Catfish
I wanted to say the same thing but did not want to get into another 
flame session-- I've read enough of those already in the last 2 years 
:-( Sometimes far easier to throw stones than to reach out with a 
helping hand. Perhaps a good New Year's resolution for some of us on 
Ridecamp might be to be a little kinder and less judgmental and critical 
of each other-- who has not gotten themselves into fixes here and there, 
thinking things would go differently. Remember when Jesus walked the 
land he came across those old biddies who were about to stone this young 
girl and when he inquired as to why they were going to do this, they 
replied "Because she is a woman of the streets!" OF course you all know 
that he said the famous words.. "Let her who is without sin cast the 
first stone." What you might not know s that one old woman walked up the 
the young girl with a boulder and clobbered her! Well, Jesus walked up 
to the old lady and said, "You know, Mom, sometimes you really piss me 
off!!!"
Here's to a kinder and gentler year filled with information-- not flame 
wars!! :-)
Bette and Bunny

Catfish Daniels wrote:
> I agree, Heidi.  However, while we spend time picking this lady apart on
> whether she should give away her horses or RIGHTFULLY deserve a bit of cash
> for her wonderful animals, eleven horses out there are getting skinny.  Yes,
> she probably was irresponsible in many ways, but let's not forget that she
> is trying desperately to reach out for help.  She's not Santa Clause who is
> notifying us about free purebred Arabs, but a woman in desperate need
> apparently.  Kudos for that!!!  Also, she was very outspoken to say that she
> is willing to give them away for a song and a dance.  In fact, there is no
> set price, no minimum price, heck, she just wants these critters to go to
> good homes and hopefully get some cash out of it to stay in her home and
> feed her family.  Let's think outside the box here, can we?
> Catfish
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: <heidi@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
> To: <whytrotfarms@xxxxxxxxx>
> Cc: <ridecamp@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
> Sent: Thursday, January 08, 2004 7:59 AM
> Subject: Re: [RC] arabian dispersal in kansas
>
>
>
> > > aw, come on, people!   did you even read all her post?  she said the
> > > most she was asking was $500!  for registered arabs, and she mentioned
> > > one that was pure polish. now if this woman has truly fallen on hard
> > > times, these horses are the only assets she has that she can get any
> > > money  to live on and pay the rent.   give them away?  surely you can
> > > understand why she needs to get something for them!        ed
> >
> > Never mind "pure this" or "pure that."  What can they do?  What have they
> > done?  What have their offspring done?  And if they are of value in the
> > "pure whatever" context, then why haven't those who value that breeding
> > snapped them up, even if just on leases to provide homes?
> >
> > Sorry, Ed--but I too get a bit miffed at these sorts of ads.  Here is
> > someone who has gone out and invested big bucks in these horses (look at
> > the stallions she's bred out to, look at their stud fees, their mare care,
> > etc.) but has no contingency plan for them when things get rough.  She is
> > a part of the commercial mill where the stallion owners take the $$ from
> > the wannabes who think they are going to make money, but have no
> > conscience beyond that.
> >
> > Much as this woman clearly needs money, the FIRST thing she needs is to
> > quit having to SPEND money.  And if that means giving the horses away, so
> > be it.  She mentioned that she doesn't want them to go to the
> > auction--well, three cheers for that, but a well-checked-out freebie home
> > would be far better than continuing to try to feed them and not managing
> > to do so.  If she is in dire straits as she says, then the longer she
> > holds onto them, the worse her financial situation AND the worse shape the
> > horses will be in, making it that much more difficult to place them.
> >
> > I would be the last one to berate her for falling on hard times.  But when
> > that happens, the welfare of the horses needs to be paramount, and getting
> > them off the feed bill actually takes priority to the health of the wallet
> > to getting money for them, too.
> >
> > Not to pick on this specific case--but these sorts of situations crop up
> > far too often, and need not, if folks would do some contingency planning.
> >
> > Heidi
> >
> >
> >
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Bette Lamore
Whispering Oaks Arabians
Home of 16.2h TLA Halynov
who lives on through his legacy
Hal's Riverdance!
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