RE: [RC] rider fear - Catfish DanielsHi Juli: I had to laugh, because your horse reminds me a lot of my 9 year old and what he used to be like. Well, I'll give you my 5 cents worth: Riding lessons won't do the trick. You can be the most balanced and skilled rider in the world, and I guarantee you that you still wouldn't be any safer on your horse when he pulls his sudden spooks. Although riding skills (and the lack thereof) can have a huge impact as to how your horse is responding or acting, being an excellent rider does not mean that you're any safer on an unsafe horse. (Does that make any sense?) Your horse has some unsafe behavior on the trail, and the best scenario would be to find out "why" he's spooking. Is it a bad habit that he's gotten away with for too long? Does he have clowdiness in one of his eyes that may hinder his vision and make it more scary for him? (My horse does have some clowdiness in his left eye and I was not aware if it for many years). Or is his spookiness a result of something more severe like pain. Yes, a horse that may not appear to be lame but has something bothering him may very well act out by spooking at everything. Believe it or not, it's his way of protecting himself and overreacting because he feels vulnerable. Cool stuff, huh? Well, here is what I did with my horse. With mine it was a combination of all of the above. His spookiness came to a screeching halt and distant memory after I visited the horse chiropractor for the first time and was informed that his neck had been out for years. To make him even more bomb-proof, I decided to invest one week (doesn't sound like much, does it?) to desensitize him in every way. I actually set myself up a little obstacle course on a field and played "trail trials". I had anything from the infamous wall-mart plastic baggies blowing in the wind to an old bright colored curtain haging from a tree branch, you name it - anything I could find. Whatever he was scared of (which is a total understatement), I made him walk up to it slowly - one step at a time - even if it took forever to get there, until he stuck out his neck to sniff it. Once he started the licking and chewing and gave me the sign of "OK, I'm alright now", I praised him, walked away from it, and did it over and over again. Take him in the roundpen and tie a wal-mart plastic bag to a long stick. Work it slowly and rub it all over his body. Start with one area and work that area until he feels comfortable with it (start at a point where he can actually see the bag). Then work towards his hindquarters, then eventually underneath his belly. Do this exercise until you can do it with his head being relaxed and appearing to be unbothered. You can have fun with this - and you'll be amazed about the results. Practice pulling a garden hose between his legs. Remember, slowly, baby steps. Repeat, repeat, repeat. Desensitizing may not sound like running lizzards, but it all ties together, trust me. It sounds like a lot of work, but you can do this in one week, working persistantly at it, and you'll have the horse you always dreamed about by the end of that week. Don't give up on him. Trading him for a different model is a shortcut, and your boy will miss you. Besides, the experience you'll gain by teaching him and going through the learning steps TOGETHER with your horse, is invaluable. Good luck, Catfish -----Original Message----- From: ridecamp-owner@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx [mailto:ridecamp-owner@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Agilbxr@xxxxxxx Sent: Saturday, May 08, 2004 8:13 AM To: ridecamp@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [RC] rider fear Ok, I just got back from the previously mentioned ride here in hot, sunny Florida where I came to a very startling conclusion while out riding my brat. I turned thirty not too long ago, and with that, out of nowhere came a healthy respect for the intact quality of my head. Ok, so I'm not sure where it came from, but I came to the conclustion that I am afraid to canter my horse when I'm out by myself on the trails. Now, Alpine is spooky. He spooks at everything. and nothing. While we were corto-ing out there today, he spooked at lizards and logs and dark spots and leaves and wind and once at his own stomach gurgling. The tenser I got, the more he spooked. Talking to myself and telling myself I'm stupid didn't seem to help me any. Where I'm at, if I want to ride, I am going to ride by myself most of the time. If we do have company, Al still spooks, but not nearly as bad. He's not a violent spooker, he just kind of jumps, and I've never come off it, but in the last month or so I've gotten more and more apprehensive about riding him and going any faster than a medium trot. (corto). So, any suggestions out there? Will I eventually just get over it if I continue to ride. I thought about taking some lessons, but he doesn't do this stuff in the ring and I really don't have the funds for lessons right now. Or do I need to trade in my spooky partner to someone who doesn't ride alone as much and find myself a bit calmer creature. I love Alpine to death, and it kills me to even think this way, but neither one of us had fun this morning, and what's the point of doing this if I'm not having fun. On that note, anyone want to trade me one spooky, but fit and sound Paso Fino (kinda dirt colored at the moment, but usually a nice palomino color) for something suitable for endurance riding that doesn't feel the need to jump every 12 strides? Juli ============================================================ Common sense should also be a part of the decision making process. 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