Not judged by their size??? Of course we are. Every time I grumble "I'm going to donate these monsters to Science!" My husband breaks into tears and begs me not to. Honestly, I would like to tone them down a bit but he cries and cries. Very pitiful. It's pretty bad though when a female friend asks, "Where did you get yours done?" I don't know why someone would pay to be this high maintenance. My bras cost a fortune and someday my spine is going to break. Do those "Hot Chillies" bras work? I ordered two but haven't got them yet. Excellent Christmas present to me, from me.