>>If you feel uncomfortable about 
    stopping ability in the french link, by all means go with the Kimberwick 
    rather than the martingale.<<
     
    Not sure I'd go with either.  Kimbelwickes need a LOT 
    of leg if you're going to overcome that curb action.  If you're having 
    problems braking, it will give you ABS brakes, but you're going to see a 
    horse backing off of the bit, with quarters strung out.  If not used 
    with a strong leg and by a sensitive rider, you're also going to see a horse 
    carrying it's head too deep, flexing frmo the crest, and backing off of the 
    aids.
     
    >>But also concentrate on the mechanics 
    of simply setting your hands and driving your horse into the stop with your 
    seat and legs, instead of using the bit as the primary stopping 
    aid.
     
    Ay-yi-yi.  Not setting the hands, surely?  The 
    aids for a halt are deep seat, legs applied to the horses side to bring his 
    quarters underneath him, and soft, hands, which encourage the horse to come 
    up into the bridle (not set hands).  It's a give and take of the reins, 
    not just a take.  Setting the hands will encourage the horse to poke 
    his nose to resist the hands.
     
    Is this a good time to discuss 
    the half halt?
     
    Kathy wrote:
     
    >>Dom 
    thought that I should try the RM with the french link first before going to 
    the kimberwicke (without the RM first), but then again, Becky Hart, my 
    instructor when I slow down enough to take a lesson, uses kimberwickes or 
    Tteam bit and no RMs.  <<
     
    And Mark Todd uses a Waterford Snaffle on his babies, Mary 
    King uses a Magenis snaffle on hers, John Whittaker rode Milton in a slow 
    twist fulmer snaffle, etc, etc.
     
    At the end of the day, the bit 
    you use depends first and foremost on the shape of your horse's mouth, the 
    effectiveness of your hands, and his level of training.
     
    I know, I know, you're all going 
    "she's not a distance rider, what does she know?", and all I can 
    say in my defence is that going at speed across country also requires brakes 
    and control.  
     
    I guess that what I'm saying is 
    that, before you go out and buy bits and gadgets to give you control, spend 
    some time reconfirming the correct aids for braking and slowing.  
    Personally, I find that the best place to do this is on trail, when your 
    horse IS moving forwards and getting strong.  
     
    Doing gallops in a group, with a 
    fit, over the top eventer is probably as adrenalin-raising as the start of 
    an endurance ride, but I find that I feel more confident on my horse in a 
    snaffle, because he responds to the aids, than on my fiancee's horse in a 
    curb, because he doesn't!
     
    Tracey