***Thanks, Annie, and 
  please don't give up on me.  My husband will attest to the fact that I 
  am trainable! :-)  ***    Ahh! But the important question is... Is 
  he trainable? To carry water buckets, mix up beet pulp. move 
  corrals, and rigs, and work his tail off in the vet checks, have supper fixed, 
  and horse feed at 4am? All with a cheerful smile, and a good back rub???  
  Come join us! Annie G.
   
   Oh, yes, he's trainable.  We've been married 14 
  months.  He wasn't a horsey person at all when we got married.  He 
  likes animals but isn't really an "animal-lover" (he had no pets when we got 
  married).  Now he hauls & unloads round bales out of the back of a 
  pick-up truck out in the rain, by himself.  He jumped right in without 
  hesitation in helping me load hard to load strange horses. He feeds, doctors, 
  & enjoys watching the horses at play.  He drops his plans and drives 
  me all over Texas to pick up and deliver horses.  He traded in his 
  precious 1/2 ton truck for a nice, big 1/3 powerstroke diesel to pull the big 
  4 horse trailer he bought for me.  He joins me on every trail ride & 
  horse campout, even bought a camper for the truck so we don't have to sleep in 
  a tent.  I talked to him about different things we could do with our 
  horses and he said he'd like to try Endurance.  He traded me for one of 
  my Arabs (said he wouldn't feel like she was really his if I just gave him to 
  her).  She full of pee & vinegar, hates green riders, so he now takes 
  riding lessons in the Texas heat once a week to learn to post so he won't tire 
  her out as quickly on the ride.  When I said I was sick of farriers not 
  showing up and wanted to leave the state & go to Farrier school, he gave 
  me his blessing & checked the fluids on the car.  When I got back, he 
  spent hundreds of dollars on tools for me and found a man that I could 
  apprentice with.  He stands behind me all the way, he's the 
  greatest.  To top all of that, he's a widower with a young daughter, so 
  he knows how to cook, clean, and do the laundry, and he chips right in any old 
  time.
   
  Is there a "best husband" T-shirt for self-sacrificing guys 
  like him who follow their Endurance-groupie wives hundreds of miles across 
  Texas?
   
  Antoinette