Re: RC: Need Advice on Situation (long)

[Endure4fun@aol.com]

Hi, I had the same type of situation that you went through.  If you don't lay
it on the line and tell her that you do not want to be around her as you do
not care for her behavior it will only get worse.  I had to end the friendship
with a person because she wouldn't catch a clue.  I tried everything and
finally said she needed to find someone else to ride with!  With someone like
that this is almost the only thing that will work especially with her
"selective" memory.  It is sad that sometimes it has to come down to this, but
if she continues with this behavior she is going to get someone hurt bad, and
think about her poor horse, when I see someone treating their horse that way I
just want to yank them off and leave them where they are and bring the horse
home.
You can try talking to her and give her a chance or two, but if it doesn't
change, get out now.
keri


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