Re: Joe's comments re. donna's comments

[Teddy Lancaster <Teddy@runningbear.com>]

Pat:

What you state is not just a problem in endurance or our schools, it is
becoming inherent in our political structure.  We also have a "protectionist"
government that is ruining individuality and self-esteem.  By holding
someone's' hand, you do not make them stronger, you make them dependent.  And,
dependency leads to complacency.  Shortly, you have a society of whiners.

You said it well.  Teddy


Pat Gluckin wrote:

> Joe, you had stated:
>
> Today, you are a Limited Distance rider.  That's nothing to be ashamed
> of.  I hope you realize your dream of someday completing an endurance
> ride -- and then you will be an endurance rider.  And believe me, that
> will mean more to you because you will have actually *earned* it.
>
> You said much more than this, and very well I might add. I agree with what
> you are saying.
>
> I am a school counselor and have just witnessed another attempt by
> educators to "help" all students feel good about themselves. A 5th grade
> class was graduating from my school and was having our school's first
> graduation ceremony. Well, the teachers didn't feel it right to give
> certificates of achievement to some kids and not to others. So there were
> some real stretches of the imagination and some real exaggerations when
> some awards were given. The intent was good. The hearts were in the right
> place; but kids are not easily fooled.
>
> What I'm trying to say is that self-worth, self-esteem and self-concept
> come from what a person accomplishes or doesn't accomplish NOT from
> "freebies". The more one is given without having earned it, the less value
> that "gift" has. Not only that, it may even cheapen the prize for those who
> have truly earned it.
>
> Let's not dilute the value of the cherished Endurance Rider status. I am a
> newbie willing to work my way up to that level, starting with LD's. My
> pleasure comes from my daily successes. That's enough for now. I'll be up
> there with you ER folks in due time knowing my horse and I have earned it.
>
> Pat (and Beau who doesn't have the foggiest idea of what is about to happen
> this coming weekend:))
>