I've enjoyed reading all of the discussion regarding Horse/Rider
compatibility that took place in the past week.
Kat, perhaps my wording regarding being "herd boss" was a tad strong. I do,
however, want to be SENIOR partner with my horse (99 % of the time).
It is ironic that the discussion of suitability began with mares, because
when I returned home, I found my six year old gelding had suddenly reverted
to the "don't touch my head" behavior he had when I first got him nearly two
years ago.
I am fortunate to have an excellent trainer of the Ray Hunt, Tom Dorrance,
Pat Parelli, Buck Brannaman, etc. persuasion who thinks and reads a lot.
Since this trainer had started my colt as a two year old, I immediately went
for help!
A few correctly timed minutes made so much difference!
It was a case of my haven taken short cuts and not having spent enough time
on the basics recently. With short days, holidays, weather challenges,
etc., I'd given time priorities to my mare, since she is to compete in March.
I feel like a "heel", but am so grateful that I have help so close at hand!
This gelding is the sort who will work in true partnership, unlike the mare
who constantly tests my seniority.
Some of the discussion regarding suitability has me wondering if I am
suitable for this gelding!!