I felt that I needed to respond!
You wrote:
> It has been my experience at endurance rides (can't speak for CTR) that 
> crowding is part of the event....  This being the case, endurance horses need
> to learn to be > "crowded" and just take it, without kicking. 
Very true!
> People who ride horses that kick need to ride in the back.  I can remember
> being at a ride once where there was considerable jockeying for position,
> with the trail alternately widening and narrowing (a recipe for horses
> getting crowded), and having one woman tell me "you need to stay back,
> because my horse kicks."  My response to that is "No.  YOU need to 
stay back, because your horse kicks."  A horse that kicks is a menace, and 
> people who ride them....  need to be aware that they are riding a menace, 
>and act accordingly.
I disagree here.  The red ribbon is a courtesy warning to others.  I 
do agree that the rider is responsible for training & riding their 
horse under control.  HOWEVER, if the folks "in the back" are riding a 
conservative race & I am out to top ten, or I want to ride a 12 mph pace 
while they are at 6 mph, I WILL NOT GO TO THE BACK!!!  Our kicker (a 
gelding w/ an "I want to win" attitude) will act worse in back because 
he has too much pent up energy if we hold him back.  He is 
controllable, but angry w/ us.  If we put him up front and let him 
work, he does better.  We can "read" him and avoid confrontations, 
but the ribbon warns folks that we work a little harder w/ him than 
some other horses.  (ie. please don't purposely let your horse rub 
his face on his but! It has happened as we trotted down the 
trail!!)
> There is no reason that I should have to accommodate a 
> half trained horse when I am participating in what, by all definitions, 
> is a horse race.
YES!  And I should not have to suffer riding in the rear if I can 
control my kicker (who I have flagged as a courtesy).  If somebody 
REALLY needs to pass, I'm always happy to use a little leg and allow 
them safe passage.  In a tight spot, we back off the trail or turn 
head in to the trail to make things a little safer.  In the heat of 
the start, Major's attitude is "I'm going that-a-way NOW!", never 
mind kicking!  (It would slow him down!)
> When I bring a green horse to an endurance ride (recognizing that it is a 
> new experience for him and that he may behave unpredictably) I make a 
> point of starting after everybody else so I don't have to participate in 
> the madness at the start.  And if anybody does come up behind me I will 
> ask them to wait while I get out of the way.
I agree here.  A well trained, seasoned competitor with a tendency to 
be grouchy & kick (if we don't stay on top of things) should not be 
generalized into the same group as a green beginner who is 
overwhelmed by the activity around him.
 > I am not saying don't bring green horses to endurance rides (how else 
> will they learn).  But green horses belong in the back where they are 
> less likely to cause harm, if they don't yet know how to behave 
> themselves in a crowd.
Please don't toss all the flagged horses to the rear - next will be 
the stallions and mares in season.  Before you know it, only mellow 
geldings will be in the rush of things.
> p.s.  I try to be more understanding of people who have difficulty 
> handling their mares when my stallion is around, but at the same time and 
> ill mannered mare is as much of a menace as an ill mannered stallion.  
> And it isn't my fault that they haven't trained their mare.
True!  It does help if they know that there is a stallion near them 
(flagged yellow) - they can offer a little more consideration that 
way.  I'd hope that mare owners are not purposely teasing your 
stallion at the competitions.  
Linda Flemmer
Blue Wolf Equestrian Supplies/ Blue Wolf Ranch
Chesapeake, VA
   "In case of emergency - Fur side up, steel side down!"